When Your Roommateâ€™s Boyfriend Overstays His Welcome
They attempt to â€œfixâ€ you
Greenberg defines narcissists searching for a partner that is romantic â€œlooking for bit of cheese without any holes.â€ And since everyone has holes, that mission is condemned right away. Once the narcissist sees those holesâ€”which is as small as, state, you unloading the dishwasher in ways they donâ€™t like, or mispronouncing â€œbagel,â€â€”they may either â€œfixâ€ you or dump you.
â€œYouâ€™re like a building under construction for them,â€ Greenberg claims. â€œThey feel just like the Prince in Cinderella.â€
Lisa experienced this with Adam. â€œHe knew my back ground and upbringing and provided me with easy methods to hide it,â€ she says.